Who cares?

Most of us, girls in particular, whine. Cry like a baby. Eat ice cream, chocolates or anything sweets that would make our pants not fit. Food that would later on reach subcutaneous fats, perfect sites for insulin shots. DABDA, the stages will pass. But who cares?

Well, some cares. But still, who cares if they care when we let The ONE got away?

The thing is, there are a lot of things to look forward to when this happens.

You get the chance to find the different kind of happiness. You get someone better and that is always the rule. No matter what happenes, the rule is: “Better ones will come.”

Then you are free. Free from the anxiety, frustrations. Imagine letting someone stay who doesn’t want to be in the place you want him/her to be? Isn’t that tiring?

Then, realizing you made someone like him/her, that ideal/dream guy, fall in love with you. Kissed you. Hugged you. Treat you as his/her own. Some may treat it as a trophy, but hey? It’s the one who got away! It’s like, “I was loved, I don’t care if it’s delusional but I don’t care what my shrink will say… I made him feel that way!” It’s a big deal! This kind of realization happens when you’re about to accept what happened. That the one got away, for real.

Then, you became happy. If you didn’t commit suicide and didn’t give up on yourself, trust me, you will be happy. Happier than with the one who got away. I know it is sooo hard at first, but when you reach that point… Worth it. Every tear will be worth it.

You’ll find yourself happy when he/she got a job that *pays, when he/she got a new car or had his/her own house, or a promotion. When you’ll find yourself happy that the two of you are already friends and unblocked on facebook, tumblr or following each other on twitter. And most of all, when you hear the news that he/she found a perfect one for him/her. The kind that wouldn’t irritate you because he/she is perfect with the one that you let go away. And that everything fell into their right places that leaves you in a peace of mind.

The thing is, The one who got away isn’t supposed to be the one. We’re making it more dramatic to make it sound… Dramatic. Maybe, we’re out of nouns that would make it sound nice so we settled with, “The One” but believe me when I say this, The ONE is the one that will choose to stay and wait. He/she won’t really go away.

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